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More about the dreaded subject - housework!

Dr. Paul | July 09, 2015 | 4 comments
 
photo of man doing laundry

What is a huge source of household conflict?---Chore wars! A friend of mine recently shared with me that the biggest cause of resentment towards her husband was his lack of household help. She is a full time working mom with two boys and a girl, and she feels like she is responsible for the lion’s share of household duties. “He’s a great Dad and the kids love him, but I can’t count on him to help with meals or laundry!” Both parents work full time and let’s face it; there is a lot to do.

When she chews him out, he likes to say “But I do help you! You don’t appreciate all the things... Read More

Help! Help! The Holidays!

Dr. Paul | December 19, 2013 | 2 comments
 
Woman tangled in holiday lights.

The other day, I realized that Christmas was right around the corner. I was almost broadsided by a driver who wasn’t looking for oncoming cars! She zoomed across the intersection and wasn’t paying attention. Fortunately for both of us, I have quick reflexes thanks to my years of martial arts (Aikido) training!

During this time of year, retail parking lots can feel like a demolition derby! I inch around corners, drive extra slowly, and hope that someone won’t be speeding off to buy the next present. Honestly, I have developed a fear of going to the Mall during the holiday season!... Read More

More on Work/Life Balance

Dr. Paul | September 16, 2013 | 5 comments
 
Child with business woman.

In 2013, this topic continues to be a source of debate and discussion. It’s not hard to figure out why. In the hey days of the early 2000’s, when the economy was soaring, many high powered Moms, working 60 hours a week, just threw down their laptops and said—“Enough! I can’t take it anymore!” It was just too hard to balance a big job (lawyer, doctor, or business executive) with taking care of two or three young children. They were fried. At that time, there was a lot of media attention given to this group of women that left their jobs to be able to see their children off in the morning, be... Read More